diff --git a/wrenchboard/src/shared_tool/family_acc.cc b/wrenchboard/src/shared_tool/family_acc.cc
index 17adf1c0..def854ea 100644
--- a/wrenchboard/src/shared_tool/family_acc.cc
+++ b/wrenchboard/src/shared_tool/family_acc.cc
@@ -282,8 +282,10 @@ long  WrenchSuggestTaskStatus(CVars in, CVars &out){
                        out["status_msg"] = "family_suggest_reminder_sent";
                       ret = PHP_API_OK;
 
-                      if ( load_db_record(xy, "SELECT id AS member_id, uid AS member_uid, 'message.svg' AS icon  "
-                                              " FROM members WHERE id = %lu ",rec2["member_id"].Long()) > 0 ){
+                      if ( load_db_record(xy, "SELECT m.id AS member_id, m.uid AS member_uid "
+                                              " FROM members_family f "
+                                              " LEFT JOIN members m ON m.id = f.member_id  "
+                                              " WHERE f.family_member_id =  %lu ",rec2["member_id"].Long()) > 0 ){
                                    xy["msg"] = "You have received a suggested task reminder";
                                    xy["msg"].set_valid(true);
                                    plan_notification(xy, xout);